Is your partner, who is a member of this sign, a cause of confusion because of his strange behavior, because he is passionate with you one minute, and the next he is seemingly completely uninterested?
If you answered yes to these questions, you have come to the right place.
I’m the one.
And I will reveal to you some very well kept secrets about this astrological sign.
By the way, I’ll give you some tips and warnings to help you better understand why your partner sometimes acts the way he acts – which can no doubt be hard to understand!
Finally, I will discuss the science behind Scorpio’s personality, which is based on astrophysics and has nothing to do with the Greek or Roman gods.
Are you ready? Let’s go!
For starters, let’s start with the basic positive and negative traits.
Scorpio – Positive and negative traits
Curious / Logical
Mysterious and mysterious
Manipulative / abusive
Focused on yourself
Passionate and intense
Scorpios are passionate and intense. As one of them, I can tell you that it is a double sword. When we are in a relationship, especially in the beginning, the other person will experience our unique, passionate, laser focus.
When we become intimate, our partner will experience a love he has never experienced before. Our energy is attractive and irresistible.
Loyal and intuitive
Scorpios are loyal. We are also very intuitive and empathetic in a relationship. When we are related to other signs of the zodiac – they do not distinguish our “distance” from ambivalence.
We’ll walk over the embers for our partner when we’re in love, but it’s hard for us sometimes to show our emotions because of other things happening inside of us (see negative traits).
Curious, logical and hyper-focused
Scorpios are curious and logical, which can be a positive and a negative thing. On the one hand, we have this unique ability to deconstruct a particular problem or dilemma, much like Spock from Star Trek can approach a particular problem.
Our logical nature is often prompted by the question “What?” … Which means we are interested in the cause of your behavior. This curiosity and logical nature, as mentioned earlier, can be a double-edged sword, because when we are hyper-focused on a particular problem, we become obsessed to the point that it becomes irritating.
We will challenge arguments and argue to get out of you what you really meant, which is the primary function of our curious nature. Our only tool to remove a particular obsession is to find a new one.
Scorpios are extremely empathetic. For reasons we don’t understand, many Scorpio men can sense what’s going on emotionally with their partner. In fact, we can probably feel what our partner is feeling even when we are not physically present.
The reason for this is that when we are in love, we focus completely on our partner. However, this capacity for empathy is limited to those with whom we are close. Our logical nature can affect this ability from time to time, as we tend to over-rationalize and over-think.
Warning: It is important to know – when we are in a quiet place, we are able to read your emotions with eerie accuracy. You don’t need to speak in our presence because we know what’s going on inside of you. If you’ve ever had an interaction with Scorpio in the past, you’ll know that’s true.
Scorpios are competitive in all the things they do. In other words, when we decide to participate in a certain activity, we want to be the best and then we are ruthless. Like the other qualities mentioned here, it can be a blessing and a curse.
Our competitive nature costs us our relationships. This is one of the reasons why Scorpios seem so cold. It is difficult for us to control the emotions of deep passion and love as we try to balance those feelings with our strong desire to “win” in other areas of life.
If you want to spot a Scorpio, look for a person who wears sunglasses in situations where it is completely unnecessary, for example – when it is cloudy or even at night. You will know that you are in the presence of Scorpio, because when you pass by him, you will feel a powerful force that is hard to describe.
Many characterize scorpions as “bad people” because we emit a dangerous but – paradoxically – attractive vibration.
Cold and inaccessible
Scorpios are cursed by obsession with a particular project or problem-solving activity. This can cause many of us to look emotionally cold and unavailable.
For people who are just getting to know Scorpio: it’s important to know that at first glance we may seem cold because we’re trying to align with your personality. It takes us a while to do this, but when we “switch” to your channel, we do it with precision.
But distractions often happen because of our obsessive nature, which in turn causes us to focus on other things.
Manipulative and offensive
These are perhaps our greatest weaknesses. Scorpios actually resort to manipulation, especially when they are jealous or become resentful. When we are in a love relationship, we expect complete commitment. It may be very selfish, but if you want to be with a real Scorpio, you have to understand that.
Warning: If we find that you are flirting with other people, and we are able to feel this through our empathic abilities, you need to be careful. I say that because you will feel a nasty sting. We will make your life miserable. Think about your experiences with Scorpios and you will know that this is absolutely true.
Jealous and overly sensitive
These features go hand in hand with the aforementioned features. When we are in a relationship, we become protective. It’s hard for us to use the rational side of the brain when we think someone is interested in you. We are also very sensitive to criticism. In fact, overly sensitive.
Warning: If we are often criticized too harshly, it activates the very ugly side of our personality and then we seek revenge. This happens through manipulation. We don’t like this part of the personality and avoid using it whenever possible. Please do not activate that chip in us, otherwise – be careful.
Obsession and self-focus
Scorpios are often accused of obsession and even narcissism On some level, this is true. We become obsessed with a particular problem, project, or puzzle and will not stop in our search for a solution until we achieve it.
This behavior is often confused with narcissism. I can tell you that this is completely incorrect. We possess a great deal of empathy and compassion for others. We just tend to be obsessed with some things to the point that it gets ridiculous.
Many of us are diagnosed with obsessive-compulsive disorder for that reason. And while some of us want to be the center of attention, most of us run away from it because it illuminates the parts of our personality that we want to hide.
- Mostly we know how to manage money very well and we are not impulsive types when it comes to spending.
- We are obsessed with their looks and image.
- We remember like elephants and we can remember the tiniest details about something that happened a long time ago.
- We are distrustful and need time to gain trust in someone.
- Often because of our obsessions that manifest in the form of stress in the lumbar region we have back problems.
- We are caring people and fiercely independent and we do not like the thought of someone taking care of us.
- Many of us work in areas such as psychology, journalism, healthcare, engineering and finance. All of these fields involve the use of logic, in which Scorpio excels.
Why do Scorpios behave strangely?
Scorpios are the people who are perhaps most misunderstood of all the signs of the zodiac. At one point we may be carefully focused on what is happening to you personally, and the next moment we may seem distracted and even absent.
Here’s why: Scorpios are influenced by the planets Mars and Pluto. I can tell you a bunch of hocus pocus things about the Greek gods and the “ruling planets,” but I’d rather stick to science.
When a person is born between October 23 and November 21, they are literally born under what is called the “Scorpio Sky”. This simply means that the planets Mars and Pluto are placed vertically opposite each other, each of which has its own gravitational influence on the planet Earth, which is primarily under the influence of the sun.
If you think that the tide is rising and falling due to the gravitational force of the Sun, Moon and other planets in our solar system then you must understand that during the “Scorpio Sky”, Mars and Pluto are located opposite each other.