“I started a passionate affair with a younger man, but I want to save my marriage.”

“My husband found out about my affair when I once looked at messages on the phone while he was next to me …”

Last summer, she started a passionate affair with a younger man, feeling lonely …

– My husband worked outside the city and did not pay attention to me, even when he was at home. He would rather go out with friends in a pub than spend the evening with me – the confession will be started by a woman (39) who wished to remain anonymous.

This is her confession …

– My husband is 41 years old and we have a daughter. I left my job because of him, because he worked all the time, and someone had to take care of our child.

The guy I have an affair with is 26 years old and I met him at my best friend’s younger sister’s birthday party. He is very handsome.

I felt neglected, and he was immediately attracted to me. He was very charming and the conversation went smoothly. We had sex the same night after the birthday. Since then, we have seen each other regularly, at least twice a week.

Sometimes he would come to us and play with our little girl. He would often help her complete her homework.

When I realized I was falling in love, I had to end the relationship for the sake of my daughter’s well-being. We both cried, knowing we were doing the right thing.

Unfortunately, my husband found out about my affair when I once looked at messages on the phone while he was next to me. We had a terrible quarrel, but he soon forgave me, saying that he did not want our daughter to lose her father.

I thought he was over it, but I recently realized that he was behaving colder than usual. I looked at his phone and found his explicit correspondence with a colleague with whom he often travels out of town. Everything was clear to me. I have been crying every day since.

I opposed him several times, but he would always remind me of my affair. During the quarantine, he worked from home, and our daughter realizes that something is wrong, because the atmosphere in our home is terrible.

Can we save our marriage or is the situation hopeless? What to do? the anxious woman asks.

If you have advice for her, or if you have experienced a similar situation, write to us in the comments.